Why majority of women wanted to do something like fashion design or baby sitting center? On the other hand the minority are really giving tough time to men. I inquire same thing with many girls. Few said, they have to take care of babies and household things too. So that's the maximum they can do. The major response was quite obvious and anticipated, that those things suits them the best. No matter which century we are in, girls will always be girls and still want to be babelicious.
What really makes them to think that way? Is it in their genes? Are they conditioned that way? I think they are conditioned that way. Because even today many baby girls are killed in the mother wombs and infanticides are none other than a woman. A woman is so much worried that her daughter has to face the same situation or worse.
A woman, even today, is conditioned that she has to someday marry a man and have to sacrifice on her desires right from their childhood. This may happen directly or indirectly. As a small girl, she observes that how her mother is leading the life and she will also have the same destiny. She starts getting conditioned to this thought. When formed into a group of girls in schools and colleges, Her attention is drawn towards the more of physical desires. When she gets married, she is again drawn into the same closed loop as her mother did. She finally becomes a woman whose thoughts have been consistently conditioned to being a woman and never dare to come out these thoughts.
Bringing up girls should be done very consciously. Make sure that they don't get into the vicious thinking that they are dominated and vulnerable. They can do many more things that man can do. Not just Fashion Design and baby sitting. Yes they can do some extra also, a divine gift, giving a birth to a baby.
As a man, why am I saying these at all? I am a father of a baby girl and I want her to live life on her own terms and not like her mother.
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